Imagine there are three sisters. Identical triplets.
Each of them shares a passionate enthusiasm for occult mysticism, and has had more than one mystical experience (an Unverified Personal Gnosis, if you will) with a godform. As a result, each has assiduously attempted to follow what this contact, and their resulting studies, has shown them. Each tries to follow their indicated Path with respect and understanding. None make any claim that their path is universal or the One True Way.
Here’s the differences:
The first sister’s worship is of a deity which is not from the culture or ethnic group of her birth.
The second sister worships an ancient god, but their worship does not resemble any of the reconstructions of that system, and parts of her praxis are at variance with the historical record.
The third sister worships a deity only found in pop culture.
So: which one of the sisters is Doing It Wrong the worst?
Show your work.
The answer is, of course, NONE OF THEM ARE DOING IT WRONG.
And, how you answered says far more about you than them.